Grand Qur’ān teaches the subject of Human
Sexuality
Preamble
Allah the Exalted, through the elevated Messenger
who is the admonisher in timeline, has informed about Grand Qur’ān:
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This: Qur’ān is
an explicit elucidation for the people at large.
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And it is guidance:
regulatory information for aright conduct and
counseling: results of affairs- disclosure of factual
outcome of acts: good and bad eventuality, reward and punishment - penal
code, for those who
endeavor to remain cautious
and avoid conduct inspired and
governed by emotion in reverence and fear of Allah the Exalted. [3:138]
Allah the Exalted has informed in
it that everything was created in measure
and then disciplined in a cohesive single unit by the choice of
attraction and repulsion amongst things. The purpose of disciplining
every created thing was to make it easy for comprehension and perception
of human beings since the objective of entire creation was to expose who among human beings conducts
himself in an appropriate and balanced manner. The purpose of creation
of physical realm is:
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The purpose and consideration on the back of this creative activity was that He
the Exalted might expose,
by subjecting to a test, as to who amongst you people is more
appropriate-balanced-beautiful-moderate with regard to conduct, behaviour and actions. [Refer 11:07]
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It is a fact
that Our Majesty has declared that which is on the Earth as appealing
feature for her.
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The purpose and consideration of rendering it attractive
is that Our Majesty might expose them
by subjecting to a test as to who amongst them is more
appropriate-balanced-beautiful-moderate with regard to conduct,
behaviour and actions.
[18:07]
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The Omnipresent, the Perpetual, the Absolute
is
the One Who created the matter and the life.
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The purpose and consideration of this creative activity was that He
the Exalted might expose
by subjecting to a test as to who amongst you people is more
appropriate-balanced-beautiful-moderate with regard to conduct, behaviour and actions.
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And He the Exalted is the All Pervasive Dominant,
the Oft-Forgiving. [67:02]
The purpose and consideration for the
creation of matter and life is to subject the man who is bestowed
autonomy of self governance and freedom of choice-will and expose as to
who of them remains relatively better moderate, proportioned, meets the
standards of beauty with regard to determined and volitional acts.
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This nominal sentence is the second object of preceding verb.
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This Comparative noun is the Predicate of
:
"who amongst you people". Comparative Noun [اسم
التفضيل], derived from primary active voice verb, is
a relational word which signifies that the
excess in meaning is in comparison to others.
This noun means more beautiful, more proportioned, more
balanced, more moderate; more manifest in beauty.
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It is disambiguation accusative noun for: .
It thus shows that the trial is with regard to beauty of
volitional acts, conduct.
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It denotes act: something that somebody does. What is an act and how is
it performed? This Arabic word denotes only those acts which
are performed by design and will. It can be performed only when data and
information
about it is already saved in the memory. Retrieving that information and translating-executing it
into action is called: "عمل". And the data in
memory is called: "علم" in Arabic. Both these
words have similar particles with different sequencing: ع , ل , م. The
act signified by:could
thus be termed as transposition of
علم: information, knowledge.
And perhaps it is matter of common knowledge that all our willful-volitional acts
are caused by the desire to satisfy the appetite, attractions, or lust of
three areas of our body; chest/heart; stomach, and the genitalia. There
is no other point where we have an appetite.
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It means that our
conduct with respect to these areas of appetite is moderate and balanced
avoiding extremes since all these appetites can be satisfied by going
into the society where everyone is a shareholder. Anyone on extremes
will effect and jeopardize the rights of others and there will be
disquiet and disturbance in society, a situation that negates the
perception and meanings of verbal noun:
Submission to the discipline
establishing orderly state of peace, security, tranquility, harmony and
dynamic balance for all.
Pleasure and Pain are stimulus for:
volitional action,
conduct, behavior. Nature has placed mankind under the
governance of two sovereign masters, pleasure and pain.
Appealing features and attractions sooth us and
give us pleasures. In timeline, attractions for human beings have been in this
sequence:
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The love
of sensual excitements felt for some of the women has become
alluring for people;
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And having sons has
become a longing
for people.
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So has become the
desire to have a state of hoarded abundance of Gold and
Silver;
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And the
marked-pedigree horses [top of the line
products], and abundance of
herbivore-mammals, and for plenty of harvesting lands.
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This is the
wealth-sustenance-provision of the transitory worldly life.
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Mind it that Allah
the Exalted grants the most appropriate return and abode by His
Grace. [3:14]
Some woman are the first attraction and this
is the primary cause of Human Sexuality which is the subject of our
study.
1. Why Men want sex? Do woman also want sex?
Grand Qur’ān has disclosed that men have
sensual excitements and some women are fascinatingly attractive for them.
What is the
cause behind it? Sex is the greatest urge-appetite and pleasure
of human beings, particularly men. Medical
experts inform that the reason humans want sex is due to the hormone
testosterone, which is predominantly male hormone.
A normal male’s body produces 20 times more of this hormone than a female’s.
This difference in real life experience may result in male feeling the same way
after one day without sex as a female after twenty days; a male that has not had
sex in twenty days feels the same as a female after more than a year without
sex.
This part of the Ayah is structurally a simple sentence which will
become compound with the following conjunction particle Waw; and is
declarative by function. Declarative sentences are used to convey
information or to make statements. This Ayah is an information report
which classifies, describes and gives factual information about people.
Information report usually begins with a general classification or
definition, lists a sequence of related information about topic; and
ends with a concluding comment.
Verb: Perfect; third person; plural; masculine;
Passive; [Form-II]; مصدر-تَزْيِيْنٌ
Verbal Noun. Its Root is:
ز ى ن.
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This is a possessive phrase, it is Proxy Subject of the preceding Verb.
This is what has become fascinating, alluring for people. The
prepositional phrase:
"some of the women" relates to [متعلقان بمحذوف حال من الشهوات]
elided circumstantial clause for
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generally it denotes encompassing all sorts of desires, appetencies. But
the circumstantial clause with prepositional phrase relating to women
restricts it to:
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sexually exciting, arousing, alluring.
Why is it that instead of all women
only some of them are mentioned for whom some men experience a feel of
excitement, arousal, allurement?
Partialism: refers to a sexual interest with an
exclusive focus on a specific part of the body
Sexual arousal, a heightened state of sexual interest and
excitement, has both psychological and physical bases. There is much
more to sex than the physical process of intercourse. Without the
subjective feeling of pleasure, physiological arousal will not occur.
However, knowledge of the physical changes that occur during sexual
arousal is essential to a complete understanding of human sexuality.
Sexual arousal and response are influenced by a number of factors.
Of
course, what one person finds sexually arousing, another might not.
Human Magnetism - Electro-magnetic Field
As electricity passes through a metal wire it causes an energy field
or magnetic field. In a similar way, human electricity in the brain and
nervous system creates human magnetic fields. There are billions of
nerve impulses in the body and these are constantly creating complex
human magnetic fields.
The human heart is a source of electro-magnetism that, even at a few
meters away, is detectable by modern scientific instruments.
A permanent magnet is an object made from a material that is
magnetized and creates its own persistent magnetic field.
Each person has a certain way of assessing the attractiveness of others.
Human sexuality is the capacity to have
erotic experiences and responses. A person's
sexual orientation may influence their sexual interest and
attraction for another person.
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Sexuality may be experienced and expressed in a variety of ways,
including through thoughts, fantasies, desires, beliefs, attitudes,
values, behaviors, practices, roles and relationships,
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which may manifest by way of biological,
physical,
emotional, or
spiritual aspects. The biological and physical aspects of
sexuality largely concern the
reproductive functions of the
sexes
(including the
human sexual response cycle),
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and the basic biological drive that exists in all species. Physical,
as well as emotional, aspects of sexuality also include the bond
that exists between individuals, and is expressed through profound
feelings or physical manifestations of emotions of
love, trust, and caring. Spiritual aspects of sexuality concern
an individual's spiritual connection with others. Sexuality
additionally impacts and is impacted by cultural, political, legal,
and philosophical aspects of life. It can refer to issues of
morality, ethics and
theology, or religion.
Sexual activity is a
vital principle of human living that connects the
desire, energy, and
pleasure of
the body to a knowledge of human intimacy, for sake of
erotic love, intimate
friendship,
human mating, and
procreation.
This suggests the amygdala plays a critical role in the processing of
sexually arousing visual stimuli in men
Men are generally more interested in and responsive to
visual sexually arousing stimuli than are women. Here we used functional
magnetic resonance imaging (fMRI) to show that the amygdala and
hypothalamus are more strongly activated in men than in women when
viewing identical sexual stimuli.
Is it a coincidence that Allah
the Exalted has prescribed one year as the maximum time limit a woman should
abstain taking decision for re-marriage?
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Those Husbands
should take note who are being separated-detached-parted from the
company of you people while
they are leaving behind Wives [for taking part in
the war-to kill or be killed for the cause of Allah the Exalted].
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Those
husbands should bequeath
a bequest
in favour of their respective wives [in case of their slaughter/or
missing in war] that
they should be given sustenance adequate
for one year without removing them out of the
house.
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Thereby, on
completion of time frame [husband’s slaughter in war
or missing in war] of
maximum one year if they themselves left
the house,
thereat
nothing contracting-objectionable is upon you people for that
act-decision they have taken for their selves in accordance with the
known norms of society.
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Be mindful, Allah the Exalted is Pervasively
dominant and the
Infinitely Just Supreme Administrator of the created realm, visible
and invisible. [2:240]