Notes on Joy and happiness
Question: "Is there a difference between joy and happiness?"
Answer: A
dictionary definition of happiness is “a state of well-being, a pleasurable or
satisfying experience.” The definition of the word “rejoice,” from which our
word “joy” comes, is “to feel great delight, to welcome or to be glad.”
Depending on the translation, the Bible uses the words “happy” and “happiness”
about 30 times, while “joy” and “rejoice” appear over 300 times. If we look at
some verses it will help us understand why joy is different from happiness.
Genesis 30:1-13 tells
the story of two sisters, Rachel and Leah, and their rivalry over their husband,
Jacob. Each woman tries to have more male children in order to please him, even
using their handmaidens to conceive more offspring. Leah’s handmaiden, Zilpah,
bore Jacob a second son, and verse 13 says, “Then Leah said, ‘Happy am I! For
women have called me happy.’ So she named him Asher.” Thus the word "happy"
comes from the Hebrew root word ashar and
means "to set right or be blessed." We also find the word "happiness" in Deuteronomy
24:5,
which says, “When a man takes a new wife, he shall not go out with the army nor
be charged with any duty; he shall be free at home one year and shall give
happiness to his wife whom he has taken.”
The word “joy” comes from the Greek root word chara and
means "to be exceedingly glad." James
1:2 says,
“Consider it all joy, my brothers, when you encounter various trials.” How could
we ever consider going through difficulties and trials a reason to feel joy? James
1:3-4 gives
us a clue when it says, “Knowing that the testing of our faith produces
endurance. And let endurance have its perfect result, that you may be perfect
and complete, lacking in nothing.” The deep, abiding joy comes as we persevere
through trials, with God’s help, and our faith matures and is strengthened. So
happiness tends to be fleeting and depends upon temporal factors like
circumstances or other people.
Joy, on the other hand, is true contentment that comes from internal factors
like our faith in the Lord. True joy is everlasting and not dependent upon
circumstances. The book of Philippians is a great study in the difference
between joy and happiness. Written by the Apostle Paul while imprisoned in Rome,
this book uses the words “joy,” “rejoice,” and “joyful” 16 times and teaches us
how to have true contentment in Jesus Christ, despite our circumstances. In
chains and aware that his life was coming to an end, Paul talks about his faith
and trust in Christ and how it had changed his whole perspective on suffering.
In Philippians
1:12-24,
Paul says that because of his two-year imprisonment (Acts
28:30),
the whole Roman guard heard the gospel from him, and it had even spread
throughout all of Rome. In verse 18 Paul says, “What then? Only that in every
way, whether in pretense or in truth, Christ is proclaimed; and in this I
rejoice, yes, and I will rejoice.” Paul goes on to encourage others to have
peace knowing that God strengthens us (Philippians
4:13)
and “supplies all our needs according to His riches in glory in Christ Jesus” (Philippians
4:19).
So the Bible teaches that happiness is fleeting because it often depends on
things outside of ourselves, but true joy is eternal because it is based on our
relationship with Jesus Christ, which is itself an everlasting source of joy.
joy and happiness are both emotions where a person has feelings of contentment or satisfaction. But both these feelings may differ from each other based on the reasons causing the feeling and the nature of the feeling. J.D. Salinger, the author of Catcher in the Rye, once wrote, "The fact is always obvious much too late, but the most singular difference between happiness and joy is that happiness is a solid and joy a liquid."
pleasure -
(сэтгэл
хангалуун байдал)a
state of feeling or being happy orsatisfied(pleased
because you have achieved something or because something that you wanted to
happen has happened)
---(энэ
нь сэтгэл ханамжтай байгаа happy - г илэрхийлнэ)
delight -
(баяр
цэнгэл, баяр цэнгэлийн ханамж)great
pleasure and delights are
not contrasted with sorrow
joy -
(баяр
хөөр)thing
that causes you to feel very happy and joys are
often contrasted(зөрөлдөх, эсрэг) with sorrows (бид
баяр хөөр, уй гашуу гэж хэлдэг. Тиймээс баяр хөөр гэж орчуулвал зохино)
| Happiness | Joy | |
|---|---|---|
| Meaning | Happiness is an emotion in which one experiences feelings ranging from contentment and satisfaction to bliss and intense pleasure. | Joy is a stronger, less common feeling than happiness. Witnessing or achieving selflessness to the point of personal sacrifice frequently triggers this emotion. Feeling spiritually connected to a god or to people. |
| Causes | earthly experiences, material objects | Spiritual experiences, caring for others, gratitude, thankfulness |
| Emotion | outward expression of elation | inward peace and contentment |
| Time frame | temporary, based on outward circumstances | lasting, based on inward circumstances |
| Example | In the midst of life's ups and downs happiness is still present. | Serving others, sometimes through sacrifice with no possible personal gain. Witnessing justice for the less fortunate. Feeling close to a god. |
| Analogy | Happiness is a state. Think of it as a 100 story building and each level corresponds to a happiness value. And that happiness will persist for quite a long time | Joy is that sudden burst of happiness. Joy is like the elevator in that building that takes you up to higher levels of happiness only for a small amount of time and back. |
| Life | Happiness can be experienced from any good activity, food or company. | Joy is a byproduct of a moral lifestyle. |
Both agree that joy is something much more than the bodily pleasures that satisfy an animal. As Smith puts it, animals always “choose a pleasure over a joy.” Aquinas, agrees, though with a philosophical refinement: “We do not attribute joy to brute animals”—it’s not quite that animals choose pleasure over joy; there’s no choice because they are incapable of experiencing joy in the sense that humans do
These are all words for things that make you happy or bring you enjoyment.pleasure a thing that brings you enjoyment or satisfaction(сэтгэл ханах, санаанд хүрэх, сэтгэл ханамжтай): the pleasures and pains of everyday life It's been a pleasure talking with you.delight a thing or person that brings you great enjoyment or satisfaction: the delights of living in the countryjoy a thing or person that brings you great enjoyment or happiness: the joys and sorrows of childhoodpleasure, delight, or joy?A delight or a joy is greater than a pleasure; a person, especially a child, can be a delight or joy, but not a pleasure; joys are often contrasted(зөрөлдөх, эсрэг) with sorrows, but delights are not..