Notes on Joy and happiness

 

Question: "Is there a difference between joy and happiness?"

Answer: 
A dictionary definition of happiness is “a state of well-being, a pleasurable or satisfying experience.” The definition of the word “rejoice,” from which our word “joy” comes, is “to feel great delight, to welcome or to be glad.” Depending on the translation, the Bible uses the words “happy” and “happiness” about 30 times, while “joy” and “rejoice” appear over 300 times. If we look at some verses it will help us understand why joy is different from happiness.

Genesis 30:1-13 tells the story of two sisters, Rachel and Leah, and their rivalry over their husband, Jacob. Each woman tries to have more male children in order to please him, even using their handmaidens to conceive more offspring. Leah’s handmaiden, Zilpah, bore Jacob a second son, and verse 13 says, “Then Leah said, ‘Happy am I! For women have called me happy.’ So she named him Asher.” Thus the word "happy" comes from the Hebrew root word ashar and means "to set right or be blessed." We also find the word "happiness" in Deuteronomy 24:5, which says, “When a man takes a new wife, he shall not go out with the army nor be charged with any duty; he shall be free at home one year and shall give happiness to his wife whom he has taken.” 

The word “joy” comes from the Greek root word chara and means "to be exceedingly glad." James 1:2 says, “Consider it all joy, my brothers, when you encounter various trials.” How could we ever consider going through difficulties and trials a reason to feel joy? James 1:3-4 gives us a clue when it says, “Knowing that the testing of our faith produces endurance. And let endurance have its perfect result, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing.” The deep, abiding joy comes as we persevere through trials, with God’s help, and our faith matures and is strengthened. So happiness tends to be fleeting and depends upon temporal factors like circumstances or other people.

Joy, on the other hand, is true contentment that comes from internal factors like our faith in the Lord. True joy is everlasting and not dependent upon circumstances. The book of Philippians is a great study in the difference between joy and happiness. Written by the Apostle Paul while imprisoned in Rome, this book uses the words “joy,” “rejoice,” and “joyful” 16 times and teaches us how to have true contentment in Jesus Christ, despite our circumstances. In chains and aware that his life was coming to an end, Paul talks about his faith and trust in Christ and how it had changed his whole perspective on suffering. In Philippians 1:12-24, Paul says that because of his two-year imprisonment (Acts 28:30), the whole Roman guard heard the gospel from him, and it had even spread throughout all of Rome. In verse 18 Paul says, “What then? Only that in every way, whether in pretense or in truth, Christ is proclaimed; and in this I rejoice, yes, and I will rejoice.” Paul goes on to encourage others to have peace knowing that God strengthens us (Philippians 4:13) and “supplies all our needs according to His riches in glory in Christ Jesus” (Philippians 4:19). 

So the Bible teaches that happiness is fleeting because it often depends on things outside of ourselves, but true joy is eternal because it is based on our relationship with Jesus Christ, which is itself an everlasting source of joy.

As verbs the difference between glad and joy

 is that glad is to make glad; to cheer; to gladden; to exhilarate while joy is to feel joy, to rejoice. 

 

As a adjective glad

 is pleased, happy, gratified. 

 

As a noun joy is

 a feeling of extreme happiness or cheerfulness, especially related to the acquisition or expectation of something good.


 

joy and happiness are both emotions where a person has feelings of contentment or satisfaction. But both these feelings may differ from each other based on the reasons causing the feeling and the nature of the feeling. J.D. Salinger, the author of Catcher in the Rye, once wrote, "The fact is always obvious much too late, but the most singular difference between happiness and joy is that happiness is a solid and joy a liquid."

pleasure - (сэтгэл хангалуун байдал)a state of feeling or being happy orsatisfied(pleased because you have achieved something or because something that you wanted to happen has happened) ---(энэ нь сэтгэл ханамжтай байгаа happy - г илэрхийлнэ)


delight - (баяр цэнгэл, баяр цэнгэлийн ханамж)great pleasure and delights are not contrasted with sorrow


joy - (баяр хөөр)thing that causes you to feel very happy and joys are often contrasted(зөрөлдөх, эсрэг) with sorrows (бид баяр хөөр, уй гашуу гэж хэлдэг. Тиймээс баяр хөөр гэж орчуулвал зохино)

Comparison chart

Happiness versus Joy comparison chart
  Happiness Joy
Meaning Happiness is an emotion in which one experiences feelings ranging from contentment and satisfaction to bliss and intense pleasure. Joy is a stronger, less common feeling than happiness. Witnessing or achieving selflessness to the point of personal sacrifice frequently triggers this emotion. Feeling spiritually connected to a god or to people.
Causes earthly experiences, material objects Spiritual experiences, caring for others, gratitude, thankfulness
Emotion outward expression of elation inward peace and contentment
Time frame temporary, based on outward circumstances lasting, based on inward circumstances
Example In the midst of life's ups and downs happiness is still present. Serving others, sometimes through sacrifice with no possible personal gain. Witnessing justice for the less fortunate. Feeling close to a god.
Analogy Happiness is a state. Think of it as a 100 story building and each level corresponds to a happiness value. And that happiness will persist for quite a long time Joy is that sudden burst of happiness. Joy is like the elevator in that building that takes you up to higher levels of happiness only for a small amount of time and back.
Life Happiness can be experienced from any good activity, food or company. Joy is a byproduct of a moral lifestyle.
difference between pleasure and joy

 
Zadie Smith understands pleasure as an experience of the daily occurrences of life: eating, people-watching. These “small pleasures” satisfy a big part of her desire for pleasure. 
Joy is very different: it doesn’t, per se, provide pleasure but is rather a “strange admixture of terror, pain, and delight.” Smith’s true love for her husband and child is far more important than pleasure, for instance.
Both agree that joy is something much more than the bodily pleasures that satisfy an animal.  As Smith puts it, animals always “choose a pleasure over a joy.”  Aquinas, agrees, though with a philosophical refinement: “We do not attribute joy to brute animals”—it’s not quite that animals choose pleasure over joy; there’s no choice because they are incapable of experiencing joy in the sense that humans do
difference between delight and joy 

 
 

 
.
These are all words for things that make you happy or bring you enjoyment.pleasure a thing that brings you enjoyment or satisfaction(сэтгэл ханах, санаанд хүрэх, сэтгэл ханамжтай): the pleasures and pains of everyday life It's been a pleasure talking with you.delight a thing or person that brings you great enjoyment or satisfaction: the delights of living in the countryjoy a thing or person that brings you great enjoyment or happiness: the joys and sorrows of childhoodpleasure, delight, or joy?delight or a joy is greater than a pleasure; a person, especially a child, can be a delight or joy, but not a pleasurejoys are often contrasted(зөрөлдөх, эсрэг) with sorrows, but delights are not.